Ah, mes amis, you have taken the plunge! A formal dinner party is a delightful experience, full of style and elegance. Many have never attempted a formal dinner; they worry they could never pull it off. Entre nous, it’s simpler than you think!
Once you have chosen your menu and invited your guests, it is time to set the table…
As you lay your pieces, it is important to mind the space. Position your tableware geometrically, so the distances between pieces are equal and pleasing to the eye.
1. Drape a freshly laundered and ironed table cloth over your table. I prefer a classic white.
2. Arrange your centerpieces, one for each round or square table and centerpieces evenly spaced along rectangular tables. The centerpieces shouldn’t be taller than your guests.
3. Place the dinner plate upon a charger in front of each chair, about two inches from the table. Place your soup bowl and napkin across center plate. I enjoy the elegance of a simple napkin fold. It adds personality to your table.
4. Lay your flatware next to each plate.
On the right, lay your three knives: first course, main course, and salad, blades inward. Then, lay your teaspoon and soup spoon.
On the left, your forks from the inside: first course, main course, and salad.
Lay my favorite spoon - the dessert spoon – at the top of the plate with the dessert fork.
5. To the left of your dinner plate, above the forks, lay the bread plate. Some forgo this piece, but I feel a buttery delight is an important part of the meal. Lay the butter knife across the plate.
7. To the right of your plate, above the spoons, set your glassware: water glass and wine glasses, arranged as a triangle and in the order that complements the meal, from nearest the hand to furthest. If the meal calls for a sherry glass (perhaps with an appetizer or soup), place it to the right of the wine glasses, close to the hand. And of course, the pièce de résistance… the Champagne flute, placed near the water goblet if Champagne is served throughout the meal, or in the order the courses require.
Now, your table is set, your guests have arrived... Bon appétit!
Written by Henri of Henri's Reserve
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